Middle Man Ministries

God places much importance on the quality of our relationships with other people. In fact, half of the Ten Commandments are instructions for how we are to interact with our fellow man, and Jesus’ teachings in the Sermon on the Mount also have a lot to say about how we should treat those around us. One of the most important relationships that we will ever have on this earth is our relationship with our spouse. Paul even uses the example of a marriage relationship to describe Christ’s relationship with us as the body of believers:

Ephesians 5: 25-33

  ²⁵Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her ²⁶to make her holy, cleansing^[b] her by the washing with water through the word, ²⁷and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. ²⁸In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. ²⁹After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— ³⁰for we are members of his body.³¹“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” ³²This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. ³³However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Just as God wants us to get to know Him and love Him through communicating with Him in prayer and learning about Him in His Word, I believe that He also wants us to do the same with our spouse. So, I have created the following questionairre as way for us to reacquaint ourselves with our spouse and learn more about their hopes and dreams. No matter how long you have been married, this questionairre should help you start a meaningful converstion with your spouse !!

Husband/Wife Questionnaire

1)     Where is your most peaceful place?

2)     What are 2 of your fondest memories from our relationship?

3)     What are 2 things you would like to change about yourself?

4)     Name 2 local places you have never been, but would like to visit.

5)     What were the 2 best dates you’ve ever been on and what made them special?

6)     What are 5 simple wishes that you have?

7)     What are your 2 favorite childhood memories?

8)     When do you feel the most satisfied with yourself?

9)     What new hobby or hobbies would you like to try?

10)   What are the top 5 things you would like to accomplish before you die?